Attracting the Best Relationships in Business, in Friendships, in Marriage, in Life
Who wants a trusted friend? Who wants to work with respected colleagues? Who wants a solid, open relationship with their
family? Who wants to find their best
mate in life? We all seek to have good
relationships with others. Humans are
inherently social creatures; we seek the companionship of other people in the
journeys of our lives.
Consider the law of attraction- what we put out there is
what we attract. This surety should snap
you back to some accountability of self.
Healers will attract those that desire to be healed. Nurturers will pull in those that want to be
nurtured. Strength will draw those that
wish to be strong. Love will feed those
that need to be loved.
Like attracts like.
What are you putting out there?
Are you putting out Need? Are you
putting out Mistrust? Are you putting
out Fear? If you worry about money and
you are in a constant battle with yourself over how to balance your budget, you
will put this harried, frenzied fear into your relationships with
everything. It is very burdensome for
you, and for others. “I just don’t have
the money,” is often the excuse for not doing what you want to do, or going
where you want to go, or being who you want to be. “I just don’t have the time or the energy.” Well that defeatist attitude will keep you at
the gate, preventing you from enjoying the bounty of life’s journey, the
delights in experiences and the joy in expression.
To reap the benefits of solid, equitable, respected and
enjoyable relationships, one must take an honest look at themselves. Are you being the type of person that you
want to attract? Are you being your
full, authentic, unabashed self so that people can see who you really are? Don’t you want to let others have the opportunity
to really understand and appreciate and value you? Be that.
Embody yourself every moment- let everyone see the gift that is uniquely
You.
Each relationship that we have is a pivotal part of our
development. Every moment is the
culmination of what we have become, who we are now, and what we choose in this
instant. When faced with this knowledge,
life can become very easy if you have but one focused guide. It is when we burden ourselves with fear of
rejection, or debase ourselves with the punishment of denial, or concern
ourselves with things that do not truly matter, that we are encumbered by a dizzying
disarray of choices. Clear these out of
your mind. Keep focused on only one
manner of being: in all of your endeavours, in each responsibility you choose
to undertake, with each action and reaction that you have opportunity to
experience and extend, do these all with love.
Do these All with Love. You
will feel good about how you expend your energy and others will respect your
manner.
See what magic happens next, beloved one. See what doors will open to you, if you would
only let them. Stand in the strength
that is yours, for each of us have the ability, the destiny to be fulfilled and
have exactly what we want out of life’s relationships. Struggles are here as a gift, golden
opportunities once more for you to choose to consciously set the pattern of
yourself and how you relate in life.
What direction, which method and by which means will you choose to
embody yourself and your evolution of happiness today? This is the meaning of Free Will.
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